"Socialising by myself "

Call me old school. Call me granny. Call me 'get with the programme' ........ But 

The more we Focus wholeheartedly  on our loved ones,
 be it attention to our husbands, wives,  children, family, friends or colleagues  ..... 
The better the relationships become , kids  behaviour improves , their knowledge, understanding and personal relationship  are established all round  .....

I don't always get it right but, social media  time is when 

I'm by myself (only)

Be it family asleep, Kids at school,Hubby at work ..... 

When they around its time for them ...... Life is too precious 

This article sums up exactly how I feel .......

....recognizing that responding to email or scanning Facebook while your kids are waiting or attempting to get your attention isn’t fair to them and could change the nature of your relationship with your kids if they don’t feel they are as important as the device. “These data are a wake-up call for we parents in that we really need to think about how these enticing devices not only distract us but potentially change who we are as parents,” says Swanson.

http://time.com/14953/parents-who-use-smartphones-in-front-of-their-kids-are-crankier/